Dating Tips For The Contemporary Single Native

Are you new to online dating and want some basic tips to get you started? If so you've come to the right place. Simply read along and follow some of these basic tips to online dating and creating a profile that will get people interested and get their attention.


Do not lie on your profile

This is a given - lying anywhere generates the bad wind of Karma. At one point in time or another, you're going to reap the effects of lie you've sowed. It is all best to keep your spirits in tune and connected through truth. You will appreciate and trust each other more, the more you exercise truth especially when it comes to describing who you are.

Do not lie in your messages

This advice revolves around the same message as above. Be truthful and honest about who and what you are; about your goals and aspirations; desires and wants. Be straight forward and honest and in the end you'll be happy you did - this I promise.

Post your best profile picture

If you post a picture you're further proving your honesty. Posting a decent picture of yourself shows your confidence and it allows the person you're talking with to get an idea as to whether you and they are a match on the physical level. The truthful discussions as mentioned about will prove whether your a match on the spiritual plane. Never be afraid to post a picture because you are beautiful and handsome in your own right and will be by someone else's eyes.

Speak/write intelligently

This tip is mostly for the men - these days woman appreciate the value of an intelligent man - intelligence makes a man stand out from the crowd. We're not talking about the intelligence of a rock scientist (unless that's your thing and if so more power to you) but general intelligence, decent talk and vocabulary, non-insultiing, sensitive, caring and genuine. When you display these qualities in your written or spoken words, you show a side of you that woman are attracted to, but make sure to always be yourself. If there's room for improvement, then do so, but don't change who you are. I think most woman would say a man who "tries to be better" is a good man indeed.

Don't pressure or push people into meeting you

This is another point that is mostly directed towards men - come on guys, admit it - when we see a beautiful woman and she's giving us the time of day we get so heated up and exited that we wish she'd let us see her now! Have patience, good things come to those who wait and if you portray yourself as a laid back and patience guy - one who's not desperate - that'll attract you to her more. Ask any woman about this and they'll give you the same answer.

So there are your quick dating tips. It's not the most extensive list of tips, but it pretty much sums up the important things. Read them over one more time and if you have any tips yourself, leave them in the comments below!